To Sis, With Love – Among Friends

To Sis,  My neck bent back in laughter. I gasped for air as my belly danced in joy among my sisters, my sister-friends. We sat at this beautifully crafted table ladened with delicately and lovingly prepared dishes. Beyond us was God's masterpiece of flowing hills. It was not short of the shrubbery we relied on …

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What does the type of compliments you expect say about you…. (and what does the type of compliments you give say about you?)

Okay, so you have to choose. You cannot have both! If you had a choice of getting compliments about the way you look or compliments about the way you perform (professionally or otherwise), which one would you choose? I'm actually talking about forever and ever here. Choose the one that will be your forever and …

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I am secretly NOT happy for you. (When women don’t support each other)

"Girl, you will not believe! I got the job I applied for!" "That's nice," came an unenthusiastic response. "Everything ok?" "Yes, I am just a bit tired. Anyway, I am happy for you. We will talk more about it later." "AHHHH. He proposed! I am getting married!" "You are?!! That's great!" she replied, rolling her eyes …

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“Where Would I Take My Shame?” (An Account of Rape)

...he took hold of her and said to her, "Come lie with me, my sister." But she answered him, "No, my brother, do not force me, for no such things should be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!... However, he would not heed her voice; and being stronger than she, he forced her and …

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